Frequently Asked Questions

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General Questions

When is Passover this year (2019)?
Passover begins Friday, April 19th (sundown) and ends Saturday, April 27 (sundown).

Seders are held on the first two nights.

This year, Easter is on Sunday, April 21st

Why should I sign up under Participate?
When you sign up, you receive a 2 for Seder Kit. This Kit will help you “set the table” to weave awareness of anti-semitism while not losing the joy of the Seder!
I signed up using the Participate link, when should I expect to receive my free seder kit?
Please check your spam folder to see if it’s there. If you haven’t received it within 24 hours of signing up, feel free to email us at 2forseder@gmail.com.

For Hosts

Who should I ask to attend my Seder?
Ask your friends, neighbors, co-workers or others you know who have not experienced a Seder. They do not need to be your closest friends. Think about who in your network has not experienced a Seder and would be interested in attending a Seder.
What's in the 2 for Seder Kit for Passover 2019?
The 2019 Kit will have multiple files for you to download. It includes:

– A special introduction for all your guests

– Questions to weave into your existing Haggadah tradition

– Background information on the history of anti-semitism in America and Canada

– Recipes!

What else would you like to see? Email us with your ideas at 2forseder@gmail.com

Where do I find people to join my Seder?
Bring a guest with the intent of building bridges and creating understanding about our Jewish values.

Attendees can be any religion or no religion, adults or children (with their parents).

– Neighbors

– Co-workers

– Classmates and their parents

Do I need to do anything special for my Seder?

Do what you normally do for a Seder. This means your family traditions. For example, if your family puts on a play to act out the Haggadah, then do your play. If you and your family prefer a shorter service, you and your family should carry on with the shorter service. We want our friends to participate and have fun!

Sign up under Participate and receive the the 2 for Seder Kit. It will help you gently weave in appropriate discussions about pushing back on anti-semitism.

Can I serve the same food I normally serve during my Seder?
Yes, the idea is for your two guests to experience your Seder. If you traditionally serve a specific dish (e.g. chicken, brisket, lamb), serve that dish. As you would for any gathering, ask your guests if they have allergies and/or dietary restrictions and tailor your menu if required.
I'm not planning on host a Seder at my house. How can I participate in 2 for Seder?
Invite 2 folks of different faiths to your local Community Seder. The JCCs and many synagogues have these. Community Seders are wonderful activities. If you are doing this -please sign up under Participate and let us know where the Community Seder takes place.
I've never led a Seder before, but I really want to participate! How do I hold a Seder?

This is tricky – we don’t want to get in trouble with any Jewish parents!

1. Reach out to a close relative and discuss your family’s traditions. You may like them, they may have driven you crazy for years, but it’s the right place to start. You are a critical link in a long chain for your family!

2. Look up Seder traditions on the web/Youtube. This gets a little overwhelming since there are about the same amount of sources for Seder as for Thanksgiving.

3. Visit our partner “One Table” who has recommendations for your first Seder.

4. Email us at 2forseder@gmail.com – we are happy to help!

For Guests

What's a Seder?
Passover is the Jewish holiday celebrating the ancient Jewish exodus from Egypt, a trip where we start out as slaves and end as the Jewish Nation. It is an eight-day holiday.

Seder is a family ritual and meal celebrated on the first two nights of Passover. At the Seder, Jewish families and friends join together to symbolically take the journey from slavery to freedom.

Want to learn more? https://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/passover-pesach-101/

I'm not Jewish, but I would like to attend a Seder. Where do I find one?
Welcome!

Our team recommends two approaches:

1. Approach one of your Jewish friends and show them this website. Let them know that you are interested in attending a Seder and see what they say! They may invite you to theirs or may want to join you at a Community Seder (see #2).

2. Contact your local Jewish Community Center (JCC). Many JCCs are 2 for Seder partners. JCCs have Community Seders where all are welcome. These are wonderful programs and you will meet lots of new friends from across your community.

I've been asked to join a Seder! What do I bring?
Congratulations! Please take pictures and tell us your #sederstory about your experience.

One thing many Jews do to prepare for Passover is a special kind of spring cleaning. All bread of any kind is removed from the house and can’t enter the house until Passover is complete (a week after the Seder).

So with this in mind, take a pass on the food gifts unless they specifically say “Kosher for Passover” on the box.

Each home Seder is unique. We recommend asking your host or hostess.


Want even MORE FAQs? See our Q&A Interview with the Jewish Community Center of New Orleans.